Many of you will agree that the Christmas season feels different when you have young children. Their excitement about Santa and the present madness on Christmas morning are truly special!
However, Christmas after separation often lacks the cheer that Mariah Carey or Michael Bublé promise. Instead, it can feel overwhelming, particularly if it’s your first holiday apart. The festivities may be challenging so it's essential to make the most of the day.
Here are some tips to help you navigate your first Christmas as a separated family:
*Opening Presents Together*
While this option isn’t feasible for every family, those who are amicable might consider opening Christmas presents together on Christmas morning. Arrange a time for your partner to come over so you can share the excitement. If you decide to open gifts together, it’s also wise to communicate about what presents you’re each buying to avoid doubling up.
*Letting Go of Family Traditions*
Not all family traditions can continue after separation. If you and your partner alternate Christmas each year, or split the Christmas period, some traditions may need to be put on hold or rescheduled. Think of this time as an opportunity to reinvent Christmas. If your ex-partner wasn’t fond of elaborate decorations, go all out and make your home festive! Keep the traditions you love, but don’t hesitate to let go of those you don’t.
*Don’t Be Afraid to Do Something Different*
If you don’t have the children with you this year, consider planning a getaway to enjoy some well-deserved relaxation. You could spend Christmas with extended family or friends or take the day to treat yourself. Volunteering at a Christmas soup kitchen could also be a meaningful way to spend your time. Remember, you’re enduring a tough period, and it’s okay to prioritise your well-being.
*Keep Yourself Busy*
Christmas is typically a day to be celebrated with others so isolating won’t help alleviate the holiday blues. Try to stay connected with loved ones, even if it's challenging. Step out of the house and try to embrace the Christmas spirit – you’ve got this!
